Turning of the Wheel: Samhain
Hello Friends,
Oh, how I’ve missed you. I hope this finds you warm and safe. Here in Western Maine, autumn is beginning its gentle fade toward winter. The vibrant orange and gold of early October have softened into shades of brown and gray. Leaves crunch underfoot, the air has turned crisp, and frost greets me in the mornings. Evenings are best spent cozy beside the woodstove.
So much has happened since I last wrote. Nursing school continues—I have one more class and my preceptorship left, and if all goes well, I’ll be a registered nurse by springtime. I’ve absolutely loved being in school, even though it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Still, I’ll be glad to return to the parts of life I’ve had to pause along the way.
This past year has been one of the most transformative of my life. I began nursing school, ended a decade-long relationship, watched my youngest child leave the nest, and spent a lot of time on my own—busy with studies, but feeling a bit empty in other ways.
Winter was quiet. Spring brought a renewed desire to get out, connect, and have a little fun again. Over the summer, I visited friends and family, managed a short vacation between work and classes, and even met someone who reminded me that it’s never too late to fall in love.
The Wheel Turns and a New Year Begins
Samhain marks the beginning of the Wheel of the Year—the midpoint between the autumn equinox and the winter solstice. The veil between worlds grows thin, and we may sense the presence of those who’ve gone before us. It’s the end of the harvest season, the final Celtic fire festival, and a time that carries a deep, quiet magic.
Samhain means different things to different people. You might celebrate in solitude or gather with friends. Create a small altar to honor loved ones, hold a dumb supper, or simply light a candle and sit with your thoughts. Cook something seasonal, take a walk beneath bare trees, and notice how the world is shifting.
The leaves fall. The air cools. Nature settles into its long rest.
Darkness and winter are coming, and a stillness begins to settle over everything. Birds fly south, animals retreat to their burrows, and the land exhales—one long, deep breath, letting go of summer.
The modern world rarely pauses for such things—but you can. Take a breath. Slow down. Acknowledge this sacred turning of the Wheel, and welcome the quiet beginning of a new cycle.
From My Desk
I’m between classes right now and wanted to take this opportunity to send you a note and a little printable. I hope you enjoy it. I’ll do my best to write more often as I near the end of my program.
Wishing you a happy and blessed Samhain, if you celebrate.
Mabon House is open—the printable library and Etsy shop are still available if you’d like to visit.
Take care, and I’ll see you soon.
Lorri
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How to Host a Dumb Supper
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Often associated with Samhain or Halloween, a "Dumb Supper" is an old tradition with European roots. It involves setting a place at the dinner table for the spirits of the deceased and observing a silent (aka Dumb) meal in their honor. A Dumb Supper can be a solo activity or you can invite friends and family to join. A Dumb Supper is intended to be a celebration of life, similar to the idea of Day of the Dead, when people honor their loved ones who have passed on with festivities and special foods. A Dumb Supper is an easy and simple ritual to do at home, as part of your Wheel of the Year journey.
The History of a “Dumb Supper”
There are a few theories of where and when the concept of a Dumb Supper originated. Some credit the Dumb Supper as an 19th century Appalachian tradition, while others claim it was born out of British love traditions, dating as far back as the 17th century. Early versions were usually centered around young women who would host a “Dumb Supper” as a way to find out who they would marry. There were various customs around hosting a Dumb Supper, including serving everything backwards and eating the meal at midnight.
This association between Halloween and love divination continued into the early 20th century. It was common to send a loved one a Halloween card, in the same way we might send Valentine’s Day cards today. The appeal of a Dumb Supper at Halloween also fits into the Victorian/Edwardian fascination with the occult that swept through Western Europe and the United States at the turn of the 20th century.
Dumb Supper’s eventually faded away as a tradition during the mid-20th century. More recently the custom as been revived by neo pagans as part of Samhain celebrations. Rather than a focus on love divination, the modern Dumb Supper is more in spirit of the Day of the Dead Celebrations of Latin America. Spirits of loved ones who have passed on are invited to the dinner, as a way to honor them and celebrate their life.
How to Host a Dumb Supper
Like many Wheel of the Year traditions, there is no right or wrong way to host a dumb supper. It can be a solo activity or you can host a gathering of friends and family to participate. It can be as simple or as elaborate as you wish to make it.
Here is a general guide for hosting a simple Dumb Supper that doesn’t require a lot of prep time or special items.
Decide on a date for your Dumb Supper. Traditionally, it's held on Halloween night or during the Samhain festival. Choose a quiet, dimly lit location, such as your dining room or outdoors in a peaceful garden. Arrange a table with a single place setting for each spirit you wish to invite. Place a candle at each setting.
Invite the spirits you wish to communicate with. You can do this through a simple spoken invitation or by writing their names on slips of paper and placing them under the appropriate plates.
Cook a simple meal with foods that were meaningful to your deceased loved ones or are associated with the season, such as apples, bread, and root vegetables. This book has some great Samhain-inspired recipes.
Before starting the meal, invite the spirits to join you in your own words or with a traditional invocation. Express your love and respect for them and invite them to communicate with you if they wish.
Sit down at the table and start the meal. Serve each guest, whether in person or in spirit. Eat in silence and contemplate the memories and presence of the spirits you've invited.
After the meal, leave the room. If there are more than one person at the Dumb Supper, each person should leave the room one at a time.
Let the candle burn itself out. (But also keep an eye on it, for safety).
References & Recommended Reading
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The Thinning of the Veil Explained: Samhain, Halloween, and Day of the Dead Rituals
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As the days grow shorter and the air turns crisp, many spiritual traditions recognize a time known as the Thinning of the Veil. This concept is central to festivals like Samhain, Halloween, and the Day of the Dead, where it's believed that the boundary between the world of the living and the world of spirits becomes thinner. This blog will explore what the thinning of the veil means, how it connects with these celebrations, and offer ways you can honor this time.
What is the Thinning of the Veil in Samhain and Halloween Traditions?
The Thinning of the Veil refers to the belief that during certain times of the year—especially in late October and early November—the division between the physical world and the spiritual realm weakens. This allows spirits, ancestors, and other supernatural energies to come closer, offering an opportunity for reflection, communication, and connection. This concept is particularly associated with nature-based spiritual practices, such as Paganism and Wicca, and aligns with the seasonal transition from autumn to winter.
The veil's thinning is a powerful symbol for many people, representing a time to pause and honor the cycles of life and death. It’s believed that during this period, it's easier to communicate with ancestors and receive messages from the spirit world. The concept ties closely to ancient cultures that followed the rhythms of the natural world, recognizing this seasonal shift as a time of spiritual reflection.
Samhain and the Thinning of the Veil: How to Connect with Spirits
Samhain (pronounced “sow-in”) is an ancient Celtic festival that marks the end of the harvest season and the beginning of winter. Celebrated on October 31st and November 1st, Samhain is one of the most important holidays in the Wheel of the Year. It’s during Samhain that the veil is believed to be at its thinnest, making it a prime time for communicating with spirits and honoring ancestors.
Many people light candles to guide the spirits of loved ones back to visit, while others set up ancestor altars with photographs, mementos, or offerings like food and drink. This quiet reflection is a way to show respect for the past while acknowledging the ongoing cycle of life and death. Rituals during Samhain often include tarot readings, divination, and meditative practices to connect more deeply with the spiritual realm. It’s also a time to look back on the lessons of the past year and prepare for the darker months ahead.
Halloween’s Connection to the Thinning of the Veil
While Halloween is known today for costumes, candy, and spooky decorations, its origins lie in the thinning veil traditions of Samhain. In ancient times, people wore costumes not just for fun, but to protect themselves from wandering spirits that could cross into the physical world during this time. The idea was to either blend in with the spirits or scare away mischievous beings.
Even as Halloween has become more commercialized, its roots in the thinning veil concept remain. From ghost stories to haunted houses, Halloween still taps into our collective fascination with the unknown and unseen. The holiday continues to reflect the ancient belief that spirits roam freely when the veil is thin, and the emphasis on honoring the dead and supernatural energy is still present in Halloween’s traditions, even in a lighter, more playful form.
Day of the Dead and the Thinning of the Veil: Honoring Loved Ones
The Day of the Dead (Día de los Muertos) is a celebration held in Mexico and parts of Latin America from November 1st to 2nd. Like Samhain and Halloween, it reflects the concept of the thinning veil. However, the Day of the Dead is more joyful, focusing on honoring loved ones who have passed in a celebration of life and death. During these two days, it’s believed that the spirits of the dead return to visit the living, and families prepare to welcome them with beautifully decorated altars, or **ofrendas**.
These altars feature photos of loved ones, flowers (especially marigolds), and offerings of food, drink, and items that the deceased enjoyed in life. The thinning of the veil allows for this brief reunion, where the living can connect with those they have lost. The Day of the Dead differs from Samhain in its celebratory tone, but both traditions view the thinning veil as a time for reflection, remembrance, and honoring the dead.
Honoring the Thinning of the Veil in Your Spiritual Practice
You don’t need to follow any particular tradition to honor the thinning of the veil in your own way. Whether you’re drawn to the reflective practices of Samhain, the playful energy of Halloween, or the colorful celebrations of the Day of the Dead, this time of year offers an opportunity to connect with the past and the spirit world. Here are a few ideas to incorporate into your personal spiritual practice:
Create an Ancestor Altar: This is a simple and meaningful way to honor those who have passed. Light candles, place a photo of a loved one, or offer a small item that reminds you of them. Take a few moments each day to reflect on their impact on your life.
Practice Meditation or Divination: With the veil thinner, many believe intuitive insights come more easily. Try meditating or using tarot cards, runes, or another form of divination to connect with the spiritual realm and seek guidance.
Leave Offerings: Similar to the Day of the Dead’s ofrendas, you can leave small offerings for spirits or ancestors. Food, drink, or flowers are traditional choices, and they symbolize your respect and recognition of the connection between worlds.
Host a Dumb Supper: Whether you’re celebrating with a fun costume party or a more serious spiritual gathering, Halloween and Samhain offer many opportunities to engage with the thinning veil. Remember, even modern traditions often carry echoes of ancient spiritual practices.
Recommended Reading
The Sacred Herbs of Samhain: Plants to Contact the Spirits of the Dead
Samhain: A Comprehensive Guide to Celebrating the New Year and Halloween, the Day of the Dead
The Thinning of the Veil is a time of powerful reflection and spiritual connection, spanning multiple cultures and traditions. From the quiet introspection of Samhain to the lively celebrations of the Day of the Dead, this period reminds us of the ongoing cycle of life and death, and offers a chance to honor our ancestors. Whether you follow the rituals of Samhain, Halloween, or the Day of the Dead—or create your own traditions—this season allows for a deep connection with both the past and the unseen world around us.
Take this time to reflect, honor those who have passed, and embrace the mystery of the spirit world while the veil is thin.
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